Hypnosis! Uncover its Mysteries

Sexual addiction is the name given to a pattern of sexual behaviour that has the following characteristics:

• The behaviour brings with it real or potential harmful consequences. These may include health risks, professional misconduct, impaired parenting, financial loss, damage to marriage and other primary relationships and the neglect of important personal and vocational goals.

• It tends to be used, often unknowingly, to anaesthetise shame, low self worth, core loneliness, anger, stress and anxiety.

Impotence is defined as the consistent inability of a man to obtain or maintain a firm erection long enough to allow satisfactory sexual intercourse.

Most men will experience occasional impotence, usually resulting from stress, tiredness, anxiety or excessive alcohol or other drug consumption. Worrying about impotence may then set the scene for a more persistent problem due to "fear of failure" known as performance anxiety.

Impotence is one of the most common sexual problems that affect half of all men over 40 years of age.

Medical professionals often use the term "Erectile Dysfunction" to describe this disorder and to differentiate it from other problems that interfere with sexual intercourse, such as lack of sexual desire and problems with ejaculation and orgasm.

Once a man fails to become erect a few times, he places more stress on himself to have an erection by sheer will power. When this too fails, he often begins to have a psychological distress that can have an additional effect on erection problems.

Chances are you are suffering from impotence or Erectile Dysfunction if,

• You are consistently unable to achieve an erection
• Your erections are not firm enough to allow vaginal penetration
• Your erections have the necessary firmness, but only for a brief period
• Your erection loses its firmness upon penetration

When men discover they have erectile dysfunction they turn to such things as

Porn sites or try to find a stimulus that may invoke and erection Maybe you've thought about trying some of the following ideas yourself, or maybe you've already plunged right in and tried them out. The most common one is to have sex with another woman - younger or more sexy than your current partner. Some men feel tempted to pay for sex. Others try Viagra. Many peruse porn magazines or look for porn on the internet. Some want to try new sexual practices and unusual positions with their partner: or tying her up, talking dirty, dressing up, spanking and so on. Some men avoid sex altogether and throw their energies into work or hobbies.

But these are not solutions - and they probably won't work anyway.

So how can hypno-analysis help?

Simply by getting to the root cause of the problem and taking the associative anxiety away, relationship stress the problem may then be resolved.

Premature ejaculation 

Premature ejaculation (PE), also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax or early ejaculation which affects approximately 25%-40% of men and is characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation.

Some sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters.[citation needed]. Self reported surveys, report up to 75% of men ejaculate within 10 minutes of penetration.

Today, most sex therapists understand premature ejaculation as occurring when a lack of ejaculatory control interferes with sexual or emotional well-being in

one or both partners.

Anorgasmia often related to delayed ejaculation in males) is a form of sexual dysfunction sometimes classified as a psychological, emotional or anxiety disorder in which a person cannot achieve orgasm.

Anorgasmia can also be caused by medical problems such as diabetic neuropathy, multiple sclerosis, pelvic trauma, hormonal imbalances, total hysterectomy, spinal cord injury and cardiovascular disease. Anorgasmia is far more common in females than in males and is especially rare in younger men.

A common cause of anorgasmia, in both men and women, is the use of anti-depressants, particularly selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs). Though reporting of anorgasmia as a side-effect of SSRIs is not precise, it is estimated that 15-50% of users of such medications are affected by this condition.

Low sex drive, low libido studies prove that general stressors in your life can impact your sex drive. That means job stress,  financial stress, the stress of being too busy, and especially can negatively impact your libido.

When you react to stress, your body goes through a series of changes in order to prepare you to run away or stay and fight, called your fight or flight response If your stress response isn’t reversed, it can contribute to a condition known as chronic stress, and can also interfere with the hormones involved in your sexual response which can result in low libido.

Solution: If you suspect that life stress is putting a damper on your libido, one of the first solutions you should consider is Hypnoanalysis to get to the cause of your problem thus releasing you or stress management. If you reverse your stress response using effective stress relievers like breathing techniques or self hypnosis techniques, however Hypno-analysis will not only help with the impact stress has on your sexual drive but also for dealing with the stress in other areas of your life.

Fetishes  Alfred Binet French psychologist  (1857-1911) coined the term "sexual fetishism". to describe individuals with sexual interests in non-human objects such as clothing.

The word "fetish" comes from the Portuguese feitico, meaning "charm" or "sorcery".

In the largest ever study of sexual kinks  when asked to name their favorite body parts Feet and toes were voted 47%,, footwear polled 64% . Not everyone is turned on by feet. The Australian neurologist and existential therapist, Viktor Frankl, once noted a case of a man whose sexual fetish involved frogs and glue (at the same time).  Other objects that people were turned on by included hearing aids and pacemakers.

The same percentage 58 per cent said, in a different survey (by psychotherapist Brett Kahr), that they regularly fantasise about sex with a regular partner. Other findings: 35 per cent of men fantasise about sex with two women; 19 per cent like to be watched; and 3 per cent fantasise about sex with animals.

The other widely shared fetish is BDSM which stands for Bondage, Discipline and Sadomasochism. Technically, it is illegal for a person to engage in S&M activities that leave a lasting mark on someone else's body

Frigidity 

The impossibility to enjoy sexual relations. Certain women do not experience any sexual enjoyment during lovemaking.

For some the frigidity is total, characterized as much by the absence of desire as the absence of pleasure. For others, pleasure is experienced during foreplay but not during penetration. Frigidity is more often a result of psychological conflicts.

Fear of sex or intercourse

Vaginismus is a sexual disorder that is characterized by an involuntary contraction of the vaginal muscles, making penetration impossible and/or painful.

Vaginismus, unlike dyspareunia (pain during the penetration), exists the more often from the first attempt of penetration. Besides, for vaginismus, the fear of penetration is stronger and more uncontrollable than in dyspareunia. For vaginismus, it is only a matter of a fear, almost phobic, of the penetration.

Painful sex